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Things I Bought To Feel Put Together
A Celine bag, a $1,200 rug, and $500 of candles I rarely lit.
Sep 8
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August 2026
No One Left Wanting
The mental math I do every time I want something for myself.
Aug 31
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There Will Always Be Another Pair
The question wasn’t whether I wanted them. It was whether I could stand to lose them.
Aug 26
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Closed For Now
What it takes to make a decision once.
Aug 24
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I Keep Forgetting This is My Own Money
Every month I give my medspa $225. Every few months, I convince myself I found free money.
Aug 19
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How Much Should You Research Before Buying Something?
A LinkedIn Creator says ten minutes. I once spent four hours on a napkin holder.
Aug 17
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Five Years, Six Jars
I’ve been buying the same eyebrow product since 2021. I still don’t know if it’s the best.
Aug 12
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Girls' Trips are Actually Focus Groups
An unpaid qualitative research study disguised as a long weekend in Newport
Aug 10
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The Brushes I’ll Never Replace Are All Brushes I Never Bought.
Four brushes, two verdicts, and the $43 comb I stole from my husband.
Aug 7
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I Called the Baccarat Hotel to Ask What Sheets They Use
The reality check I got from being ghosted by an Italian textile mill
Aug 5
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How I'm Choosing a Hallway Runner for my Dark Entryway
I thought I needed a rug. I was actually trying to change how it feels to come home.
Aug 3
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July 2026
I’m Almost Never Shopping for the Thing I Think I’m Shopping For
My reason for starting "sat with it," and the way I think about making decisions
Jul 30
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